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How to Train a Cat to Stop Doing Almost Anything

Three Parts:

You may love your cat more than anything in the world, but there are certain behaviors, such as tearing up furniture, scratching people, and getting into areas you don’t want her to access, that are simply unacceptable. You will need to practice patience and persistence to deter your cat’s bad behavior. With certain adjustments to her routine and the use of correcting techniques, you should be able to stop your cat from practicing bad behavior.

Steps

Determining the Cause of the Bad Behavior

  1. Understand the most common behavioral problems in cats.Though every cat is unique and may have specific issues or specific bad behaviors, most cats act out in seven ways:
    • Avoiding the litter box or refusing to use the litter box.
    • Marking furniture and other objects with their urine.
    • Scratching furniture and other objects in your home. Your cat may also scratch you or others when play fighting.
    • Acting aggressive towards other people or towards their owner.
    • Acting aggressive towards other cats in the home.
    • Displaying stress or anxiety.
    • Acting fearful of objects or people.
  2. Bring your cat to the vet for a checkup to rule out any medical issues.Sometimes cats will respond act out or display behavioral issues because they are struggling with a medical issue. For example, your cat may refuse to use his litter box due to a urinary tract infection, or he may act aggressively towards you because he is experiencing physical pain that is not immediately apparent to you. Some cats become fearful of people or objects due to vision issues and over groom themselves due to hyperthyroidism.
    • Taking your cat to the vet for a checkup will help identify any medical problems that could be causing your cat’s bad behavior and treat it promptly so it does not get worse. If your vet gives your cat a clean bill of health, you can focus on issues in your cat’s environment that may be causing his bad behavior.
  3. Recognize any environmental causes for your cat’s bad behavior.Once your cat is cleared of any medical issues, you can consider why your cat might be displaying one or several of these bad behaviors. Look at his environment for any triggers of bad behavior, including:
    • A dirty or poorly kept litter box, which can lead to litter box avoidance.
    • Another cat who is bullying your cat in the home, leading to litter box avoidance and aggression.
    • A new cat in the home, which can cause your cat to urine mark. A new dog in the home can also cause your cat to act fearful or aggressive.
    • A lack of scratching posts, which can lead to your cat scratching furniture and other objects in the home.

Correcting Your Cat’s Behavior

  1. Avoid physically or verbally punishing your cat.Physically or verbally reprimanding your cat is one of the least successful ways to correct your cat’s bad behavior. In fact, hitting your cat or yelling at him can lead your cat to act more fearful around you, be less willing to play with other people, and display more aggressive scratching and biting. Your cat will likely continue to act out when you are out of sight as he knows he can perform the behavior without punishment if you cannot see him.
    • Physical or verbal punishment is generally ineffective, as short-term solutions to your cat’s issues and will not stop your cat from acting out. Instead, it will create a more stressful environment for you and for your cat. Though it can be hard not to yell or hit your cat when they do something bad, like urine mark your furniture or go to the bathroom on the carpet instead of the litter box, it’s important that you take a deep breath as an owner and try to use a more effective correcting technique.
  2. Use remote correction.This technique connects an unpleasant texture, smell, taste, or sound with a certain bad behavior to deter your cat from doing them. You can use home supplies to do remote correction, for example:
    • Texture: You can put sticky paper, aluminum foil, or heavy plastic carpet runners on areas that you would like your cat to avoid. Cats generally dislike walking on any of these textures.
    • Smell: You can use smells cats tend to dislike in areas you do not want your cat to access. For example, placing cloth or cotton balls soaked in citronella, perfume, air freshener, citrus, aloe, eucalyptus oil, and oil of wintergreen on objects or surfaces.
    • Taste: You can rub certain foods on surfaces that your cat likes to chew on or scratch, such as bitter apple, citrus products, hot sauces, cayenne pepper, or aloe gel. Over time, your cat will associate the bad taste with the object or surface and avoid it.
    • Sound: Using noises that startle your cat can deter him from doing a behavior or going on a surface. This could be blowing a whistle, ringing a bell, or shaking a can with some coins inside. Try to use the sound, instead of your voice, to startle him just as he is about to do something you consider bad behavior and he will come to associate the behavior with a negative sound.
  3. Ignore your cat when he acts out during a play session.If you notice your cat engaging in rough or aggressive play during a play session, you can try to correct this behavior by withdrawing your attention from him.
    • Do this by walking to another room and closing the door. Wait until he calms down before you touch him or address him. This will show him that his bad behavior is upsetting during playtime, and discourage him from acting out again.

Adjusting Your Cat’s Environment and Routine

  1. Practice good litter box hygiene.If your cat is displaying litter box avoidance, it’s important that you practice good litter box hygiene to encourage him to use the litter box. This means scooping and changing the litter every day, cleaning the litter box once a week, and making sure the litter box is appealing to your cat. Most cats do not like litter boxes with hoods or liner, as it can be uncomfortable for them, so avoid using a litter box with a hood or a liner.
    • If there are multiple cats in your household, there should be a litter box for each cat, plus an extra litter box. Try to spread out the litter boxes so each cat has enough room and privacy to do their business. Look for a quiet area in the home where your cat can still look around and see if anyone is coming up behind her.
    • Make sure the litter box is big enough for your cat to sit in comfortably and have one to two inches of litter in the box. Cats dislike litter boxes that are too deep with litter.
  2. Provide scratching posts and daily play sessions.Most cats act out due to boredom or under stimulation, so it is important that you commit to daily play sessions with your cat. Use a toy, or several toys, when playing with your cat to deter him from playing rough with your hands or arms. Focus his attention on the toys during the play sessions and switch up the toys each week so he does not get bored.
    • Scratching posts are also good for deterring your cat from scratching furniture or other fabric objects. Place scratching posts in communal areas of your home or your cat’s favorite spots.
  3. Use cat pheromones to reduce stress in the home.If your cat is urine marking or urine spraying, it can help to use a synthetic cat pheromone in the home. It can reduce stress and prevent your cat from urine marking if he is feeling anxious or fearful.
    • This pheromone is usually delivered through a diffuser or a spray and can be found at your local pet store.

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    Do cats learn if you punish them?

    Veterinarian, Royal College of Veterinary Surgeons
    Dr. Elliott is a Veterinarian who specializes in Companion Animal Medicine in England. She registered with the Royal College of Veterinary Surgeons in 1987.
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    No. Or, more precisely, the cat will learn but not the lesson you intended to teach. Cats don't link "cause and effect," so if you punish a cat for jumping on a countertop, they don't link the punishment to the act but to you. What happens is the cat then learns to be fearful of you instead of learning to not jump up.
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    How do I train my cat not to scratch furniture?

    Veterinarian, Royal College of Veterinary Surgeons
    Dr. Elliott is a Veterinarian who specializes in Companion Animal Medicine in England. She registered with the Royal College of Veterinary Surgeons in 1987.
    Veterinarian, Royal College of Veterinary Surgeons
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    Cats need to scratch so the answer is to provide scratching posts the cat will enjoy using. Furniture scratching cats usually prefer vertical surfaces, so get several sturdy vertical scratch posts. It may help to cover them in a similar fabric to the furniture. Gently take kitty's paws and make scratching motions to transfer some of her scent. Praise kitty when she uses the posts.
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    How do you train a cat not to go outside?

    Veterinarian, Royal College of Veterinary Surgeons
    Dr. Elliott is a Veterinarian who specializes in Companion Animal Medicine in England. She registered with the Royal College of Veterinary Surgeons in 1987.
    Veterinarian, Royal College of Veterinary Surgeons
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    By making the indoors as attractive and fulfilling as possible, you can reduce the cat's urge to explore outdoors. Tactics include playing with the cat 2 - 3 times a day, providing puzzle feeders, and creating a kitty-friendly environment with high perches, kitty walkways, and safe basking spots on a catio or the like.
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    How do I keep my cat off the counter?

    Veterinarian, Royal College of Veterinary Surgeons
    Dr. Elliott is a Veterinarian who specializes in Companion Animal Medicine in England. She registered with the Royal College of Veterinary Surgeons in 1987.
    Veterinarian, Royal College of Veterinary Surgeons
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    Most importantly, be sure to never leave food or anything tasty on the counter. Then set remote punishment traps so that when the cat jumps up, they get a nasty surprise (but obviously don't harm the cat). This gives the cat a healthy respect that the counter is not a good place to be. Try an SSSCat motion activated compressed air spray or balancing a baking tray on the edge of the counter.
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  • Question
    Why does he keep tripping me? How can I stop him?
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    His standing in front of you and blocking your way is his sign that you're family. Cats rub their flanks together to foster the family bond; your legs are just the highest point he can reach. Stroke his flank with your hands a few times, he should then stop trying to rub against your legs.
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  • Question
    How can I stop my cat from kneading me with her claws out before she lays down on my lap?
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    Unfortunately, it is impossible to do this. Kneading is a instinct that goes back to when your cat was a kitten. It's a sign that your cat views you as her mother! What you can do, however, is make the kneading less painful by covering your lap with a blanket. Also, remember to trim your cat's claws regularly; never declaw her, however.
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    What makes good scratching post?
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    You could simply get a piece of wood and lean it against the wall. You can also wrap some twine or sisal rope around a plank of wood; this will give it a bumpier surface that some cats prefer. You can also get your cat a scratching pad made out of cardboard; most pet stores sell them. They seem to be a favorite among cats!
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    How can I stop my cat from biting my fingers?
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    Don't play with your cat using your fingers as a bait or he'll get use to it. Get a cat toy instead.
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    Why does a cat use the floor next to the litter box? This happens even when the box is clean.
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    1. The litter box can be too small for your cat. The litter box should be one-and-a-half times the length of your cat. Our cat used to pee right next to the litter box sometimes. It stopped once we switched to a bigger model. 2. The type of litter can be unpleasant for your cat, you might want to switch to another type/brand. It is also recommended to use odorless litter. 3. If you have a hooded box, try to switch to an uncovered one, or at least try to remove its doors. Your cat can feel unsafe without an ability to see the surroundings.
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    How can I stop my cat from getting up on the furniture?
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    Stick double-sided tape to the furniture, wherever s/he usually jumps up. They will not like the feeling of the sticky surface. Leave the tape on for a week, then remove it, your cat will not know it is gone.
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